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I hope you have some beautiful plans this Summer. We did not earn much money early in our marriage and parenting. So we found creative ways to have fun, make memories and spend special time together. Now, having older children allows us the unique opportunity to reflect on those memories as a young, busy family and share some wisdom with you. I recall guilt and frustration because I could not give my kids the "spectacular vacation" like other families. I wondered if our vacation-on-a-dime would have the same long-term effect I wanted. I'm happy to say it did. In talking with my kids this weekend, they expressed how much it means that we worked hard to create memories, laugh together, cry, and tell silly jokes even when we did not have much money. To do those things at fancy places (not that I am opposed to spectacular vacations) is acceptable. Let's not confuse spectacular with substantive. 

Friends, I share a snapshot of our history with the hope that you will resist the lie that vacations must be large to be loving. In the long run, you will remember how people made you feel more than what they spent or where they took you. This Summer, commit to being a person of peace. Commit to doing something silly and fun. Commit to reading a book of the Bible with your children (using an age-appropriate version) and talk about it. Teach your children how to pray, referencing the Bible. Go to a park and rediscover the joy of swinging and the hope found in children's laughter. Set a goal for your personal growth and development. Even though gas prices are high, inflation is rising, and the stock market is declining, God is on the move! Do not let the realities we face steal the joy and purpose of this season. I bless you to know the love of God beyond knowledge. I bless you with a heart that overflows with joy and hope. I bless you to experience the power of God at work in your life as the Holy Spirit reveals to you the beauty of Jesus. I bless you to laugh more than you thought possible!