Lance Bane

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Episode 46: Home Space

Acts 2 tells us that as the followers of Jesus met in homes, God added to their number daily. Having people in your home to experience the love of God and His grace is powerful and needed in this hour. So, what do we need to consider if we are going to do healthy ministry in our home? This podcast provides practical advice and spiritual wisdom to help you.

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Home Space Lance Bane

Notes:

There is a simple fact we need to acknowledge - while the work of God, ministry, compassion, justice and love is often done at a spiritual and emotional level, it happens in physical spaces.

Acts 2:46, “Daily they met together in the temple courts (public space) and in one another’s homes (personal space) to celebrate communion. They shared meals together with joyful hearts and tender humility.” The Passion Translation

Our home space can be filled with God’s grace. This reality flows out of who we are. Our internal world is often reflected in external spaces, attitudes, behaviors and lifestyles.

  1. Physical Space

    1. Clean

    2. New environments (park, beach, backyard, another person’s home, shopping/lunch, recreational activity, museums)

    3. Distraction free

    4. Comfortable

    5. Warm (welcoming)

    6. Supports relationship building (group seating, easier dialogue, ministry to one another)

    7. Seating

    8. Food choices (allergies)

    9. Cleanliness

    10. Lighting

    11. Music

    12. Scents

    13. Pets, pet hair, pet odor, pet bathroom use,

    14. Bathroom cleanliness

  2. Emotional Space

    1. What emotions am I bringing to the gathering?

    2. Consider what it means to have a:

      1. Joyful

      2. Safe (failure is not fatal — heart attitude, words, tone and follow through)

      3. Empathic

      4. Communal

      5. Hope-filled

      6. Nurturing Space

    3. Take short breaks.

    4. Don’t be intimated.

  3. Spiritual Space

    1. Worship God. (ambient music, intentional, provide song sheets if need, use music videos with lyrics)

    2. Engage God’s word.

    3. Share testimonies.

    4. Celebrate with communion.

    5. Practice spiritual gifts w/ biblical oversight and direction.

Challenges of having people in your personal space:

  1. People violating personal space.

  2. Pressure to keep house perfect.

  3. People wanting to stay after the meeting.

  4. House is a wreck when it’s over.

  5. Valuables laying around with strangers in the home.

  6. Things broken.

How to mange the challenges:

  1. Consider the cost.

  2. Communicate that people are welcome.

  3. Communicate expectations.

  4. Create a clean up team.

  5. Serve at other’s homes the way you want some to serve at your home.

  6. Offload the pressure of perfection and embrace cleanliness.

  7. Have a healthy attitude:

    1. Love deeply

    2. Serve fiercely

    3. Laugh robustly

    4. Expect greatly

    5. Be present continually

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